The Secret to Getting Anything You Want in Life given by Jennifer Cohen | Jen Cohen | TEDxBuckhead

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Mm so I know the secret to getting anything you want in life, but before I share it with you, let's talk about why we don't get what we want. We all have fear fear of failure, feel of rejection, fear fear of not being good enough, but all of those things stemmed from one core place and that self doubt self doubt is why we get a crappy job it. Why we don't get the body we want or make them money we deserve and stay in relationships. Much longer than we know, we should self doubt is why we never change and we don't take action. So then, what is self doubt self doubt is a story we tell ourselves. We can do something and it's not possible how will get rejected and fail, which is why it's often times smart people often fail when you're really smart, you're really good at purpose of predicting all the possible negative outcomes. So you never take action. That's why it's my belief that unfold- and this is a stronger indicator of success than intelligence, smart people, think of all the negative things that will happen when things go wrong, but both people think of all the good things that will happen when things go right now, I'm not saying that smart people can be bold and that both people can't be smart, but if boldness, that's the secret sauce boldness is what puts do you on the path to success and water. So when I was eighteen years old, I had a really big dream. I'm from a little small town in canada called winnipeg, and my big dream in life was to be a vee jay for much music. You guys know what that is. That's like mtv for you guys, so I I want it to be like the female carson daley, I mean I'm kind of dating myself, but you guys got got the point right. So I knew the job was super competitive. So I knew I thought to myself. Okay, I need to make a kilo killer, demo tape and that she had no capel get me. The job cuts to cannery canneries was the biggest movie star of all time and unbeknownst. To me, he always wanted to be in shakespeare, right and he'd. Just finished speed. The movie.